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Busy, busy, busy

I have been so busy! How busy, you ask? Too busy to do actual writing  on my blog. I have been researching  writing  techniques  (some shared here), writing  my book, and if being so busy wasn’t  enough  I adopted a  beagle  from the  local humane society  (dog number four). Ugh, what could  possibly be  wrong with  me? Molly is a wonderful  addition to our crazy family.  She captured  our hearts immediately.  My husband and I  spent Saturday  afternoon  hanging out in  town. We decided to stop at the shelter, because  we love animals,  and we wanted  something to do.  Molly, the beagle didn’t  bark, stayed calm, looked adorable,  and immediately  gave kisses. She nailed us in the heart, hook, line, and sinker! As if my schedule  wasn’t  busy  enough!  Molly  has been  wonderful, and whatever  doesn’t  kill you  only  makes  you  stronger,  right?

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Working on my next book

I started writing a new chapter for my next book, and the character I created scares the bajeebus out of me. He is wicked with a capital W! Even though he is scary I am excited to introduce my villain to the story.

I will be working on the title,  book description and cover, and I will post them here soon. So stayed tuned. You will have the first glimpse of this thrilling story.

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Abandonment Affects Everyone

My mother abandoned her four children.  My two oldest brothers were in high school,  I was fourteen and my youngest brother was eight. My father took over, ill prepared to care for us at all, so I took care of everyone. I did suffer from depression at the time,  but I held it together for my young brother.

Remnants of those feelings still fester deep inside. I don’t let them destroy me, but they are there. The feelings creep in like a shadow in the night, they sweep over me, and take my breath from my lips.

I am not the only one who’s associated with this abandonment who’s affected. Even though my children barely know my mother they feel it too. Even though my husband has never abandoned me, I inadvertently put the strain on him to be my rock, my great protector.

When my husband and I went to the Pythian Castle the other night he wandered off, looking around by himself.  In doing so I felt abandoned,  left to experience this grand place without him. I didn’t tell him about my feelings,  because deep down he isn’t responsible for these feelings,  I own them, he’s not the cause, and I don’t put that on him. I don’t want my abandonment issues to affect him too.

I was grumbling the other day about my husband being insensitive,  and my nineteen year old son asked me if we were getting divorced. I felt like I was going to cry. He doesn’t want to lose my husband (step dad to my son). It’s not going to happen, but it’s evident the fear is there.

Does my mother’s abandonment of her children really flow through to everybody?  It flows through me, but do I pass it on to others? Or do they feel a need to have my mother as their grandma,  because that would be normal?

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Busy Weekend

I had a lot of fun this weekend! My daughter and her boyfriend were visiting, and it was great to hang out, laugh, and catch up. Friday night we went to the Pythian Castle in Springfield Missouri. Who would have thought there was a castle nestled in the hustle and bustle of the city? One block away there was gas stations, car washes, restaurants, and every other convenience you could imagine.

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Here’s some history about the castle…………….

The Pythian Home of Missouri, also known as Pythian Castle, in Springfield, Missouri was originally built in 1913 by the Knights of Pythias and later owned by the U.S. Military.[2]

It was once believed that German and Italian prisoners-of-war were held there during World War II But later research found that no German nor Italian prisoners were held in the castle itself, although P.O.W’s were there, they were kept in the army hospital out back of the castle. This bit of information was featured on the Sy Fy channels Haunted Collectors.[2]

The building was listed on the U.S. National Register of Historic Places on October 7, 2009.[2][1]The listing was announced as the featured listing in the National Park Service‘s weekly list of October 16, 2009.[3]

The Knights of Pythias, a fraternal organization, originally constructed the castle and detached power plant as an orphanage and retirement home for children and widows of members of the order. It was called The Pythian Home of Missouri. It also served as a meeting hall for the order. It served in this capacity until in 1942 during World War II when the United States Military commandeered the facility for use in conjunction with adjacent O’Reilly General Hospital in entertaining and rehabilitating injured U.S. troops. It was renamed The Enlisted Men’s Service Club. The facility featured a movie theater, ballroom, bowling alley, pool hall, library, and arts and crafts area. Some of the most famous movie stars, comedians, and entertainers of the era performed in the theater while the ballroom was host to big bands playing for the dancing pleasure of the troops. After the war the building was retained by the military for use as a reserve center until it was sold as surplus in 1993.

It is now privately owned by Tamara Finocchiaro. Renovations have been completed to the property including a new driveway and parking area. As of August 1, 2010 the castle has been reopened to the public for use as a cultural arts and events facility. It is available for special event rental including weddings, proms and corporate parties and offers public events such as history tours, murder mystery dinners, and holiday events. To add to the castle’s many identities, it is also considered by some to be one of the more haunted places in the Ozarks and was investigated by the television show Ghost Lab in early 2011.[4] Ghost tours offered year round.

Even though it was a ghost tour I was more interested in the history of the building, and we did not see any ghosts..lol.

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A selfie in the same room many celebrities entertained, including Frank Sinatra.

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And last, but not least my daughter trying to teach me how to take a selfie..lol

We went to a rodeo on Saturday. They were having Youth Championship bull riding, and also little kids riding sheep. I haven’t been to a rodeo since I was a teenager, so it was exciting.

Sunday was spent trying to till out our garden space. The new tiller we bought is a piece of junk, so we will be returning it! We managed only a few rows in three hours, so we quit until next weekend. For a couple hundred more dollars we will buy a much nicer tiller.

I am completely wiped out today, but it was all worth it. I knew I should take it easy, having Multiple Sclerosis I should know my limitations, but I pushed myself, and now I must pay!

Hopefully tomorrow I will be recovered enough to get to work writing on my new book!

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